The Social Flower

Everybody has their favorite snack. Whether its a couple of Hot Cheetos, sliced apples, or perhaps a even worse snack, men. We all love a good snack! Just enjoying my favorite snacks. I recently came into the realization that I might just love snacking and not want to commit to a serious relationship for a while. Fuck it, life is a buffet. It was a typical Sunday afternoon where I was doing a few publicity projects at work and perhaps worked 10+ hours.  I was sitting at a book reading I had created for one of the places I work while it hit me; maybe I am not meant to be in a relationship anymore. Author Micah Perks read a couple of short stories from her newest book, True Love and other Dreams of Miraculous Escape , during the event when a couple of women joined in for a very interesting but eye opening conversation. https://www.micahperks.com/ Micah was the married woman, another one was newly divorced, and one the last one was married to anothe...

Everyone has experience at least 1 major heartbreak by the age of 25, right? I know I had and I actually did not cry. Not everyone can keep the pain nor swallow the tears but with a few tequila shots, a few dancing nights; we simply learn to dance of the pain of our major heartbreak. See, I was in a relationship for 4 years. I thought he was the one but after a few major red flags into the 2 year mark, I began to have doubts. I continued our relationship even thought I did not trust him nor he respected me the way he spoke to me but I was afraid to start all over so I settled. I know, that was stupid, but when you are in love you do stupid things! I was with this person in my mid twenties but I dont regret, if anything I learned. Never give your all to someone unless its YOURSELF! I am now enjoying life without worrying if someone will get mad for what I said or better yet not have to beg for someones attention or affection. Life is beautiful when you no longer have to worr...